Sunday, December 28, 2008

The Warrior

The Warrior



"Just as a firm post, sunk in the earth,

Cannot be shaken by the four winds;

Even so do I declare him to be a Righteous person

Who thoroughly perceives the Noble Truths."

- The Buddha, Ratana Sutta





In my search for Truth, Happiness and Freedom, I shall be Brave, Strong,

When I'm tired, I shall rest,

So as to emerge Great, Proud (ie. Confident, Courageous, Bold and Fearless)

And Victorious I shall stand as The Exalted One.




This, I wish the same for All sentient beings of All the different realms,

Whether terrestial or celestial, without any exception,

including all the Brahmas, the Devas and the Nagas.

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"Just as the lotus arise from the dirt and mud
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Untainted;
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So shall I, so shall I." .
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Be kind to others, and be good to yourselves.

Have a Love-ly and Happy New Year, everyone!

With all my love,

Maitre-light






* In honour of 2 of the greatest masters of our time, the late Venerable Ajahn Mun and Ajahn Chah, I'm leaving you with excerpts from their teachings ;

For they are truly the Real Warriors.

I hope it'll inspire you just as much as how they have inspired me.

Happy reading and Enjoy!

With love,

Maitre-light















"In my own search, I tried nearly every possible means of contemplation.
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I sacrificed my life for The Dhamma, because I had faith in the reality of Enlightenment and the Path to get there .........

These things actually do exist, just like The Buddha said they did.

But to realise them takes practice,

Right Practice.

It takes pushing yourself to the limit.

It takes the courage to train, to reflect, and to fundamentally change.

It takes the courage to actually do what it takes.

You've got to discover it in The Depths of Your Own Heart."

- Venerable Ajahn Chah

(taken from the book 'Unshakeable Peace' by Ajahn Chah.)



















"Fear, I have been afraid;
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Boldness, I have been bold;

Love, I have loved;

Hate, I have hated;

Detestation, I have detested;

Anger, I have been angry -

All this because I have a heart -
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I am not a dead man,
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Or monk.

But I have tried with my utmost ability to train myself without ever slipping back or giving way.

Those things which used to be in charge and overpowering crumbled away under the power of the work and diligence of
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The one who is NOT afraid to die."

- Venerable Ajahn Mun


(taken from the book 'Patipada' or 'The mode of practice of Venerable Acharn Mun' by Venerable Acharn Maha Boowa Nanasampanno)


For Love For Freedom and For Peace












Sunday, December 21, 2008

Questions and Answers (Part 5) : Happiness and the path to Happiness

Questions and Answers (Part 5) : Happiness and the path to Happiness


I'm ending the series on 'Questions and Answers' with the most important question of all : Happiness - something which each and every one of us seek.

I hope this series of 'Questions and Answers' helps to bring about answers which you so seek, and also give you a better understanding of yourself, your life, Life and the purpose of life.

May all be well and happy.

Maitre-light




Happiness and the path to Happiness.
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1) What is my greatest fear?
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2) What is real Happiness, and
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3) How can I experience/attain it?
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Bonus Question :
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4) Now, for every answer you give to the above questions, ask yourselves, "Why?".
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"Suffering is a disease and therefore can be cured completely."
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"Seek not love, but simply be Loving;
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Seek not joy, but simply be Joyful;
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Seek not peace, but simply be Peaceful;
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Seek not wisdom, but simply be Wise.".
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"Happiness is the path to Enlightenment."
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"Happy is he who makes others happy;
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Happy is he who has lofty and noble aspirations;
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Happy is he who allows others to live in peace;
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Happy is he who makes this world a better place to live in;
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Happy is he whose work, chores and daily tasks are labours of love.
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Happy is he who loves LOVE."
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Sunday, December 14, 2008

Questions and Answers (Part 4) : The Questions of Life

Questions and Answers (Part 4) : The Questions of Life


1) When is the most important time?

2) Who is the most important person?

(Hint : If you think the answer is 'I', 'Me' - that means you, think again. If you think it's The Buddha, Jesus Christ, God etc, think again also. If you think it's your mummy or daddy, please think a bit harder ......... Dig deeper and carefully.)

3) What is the most important thing?

Bonus Question :

4) From the above when, who and what, you'll have the 'Why'.

Now ask yourselves, Why?




"Never put off till tomorrow what you can do today;

For tomorrow may not come."



"If you cannot see the kamma here, in what realm of heaven or hell will you ever learn to accept it?"

- Ajahn Maha Boowa




"If you want to gain release from suffering and stress in this life time, then see the danger of your own errors, your complacency and your lack of mindfulness."

- Ajahn Maha Boowa



"Suffering is a disease, and therefore can be cured completely." - The Buddha

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*And remember : at the end of the day,

"Life is but a journey ........ a journey to take us 'Home'."







Sunday, December 7, 2008

Questions and Answers (Part 3) : The Core of Existence

Questions and Answers (Part 3) : The Core of Existence


If you want to know why things, including you and Life exist, try answering the following questions; and the core of existence shall be revealed to you.

1) What do you expect?

2) What are you going to do about it?

3) What can you learn form it?

Note : Existence is not just about life, but also about problems in our lives, people, illnesses, what's happening in the world etc etc etc.

Avoid reading or taking things too literally, intellectually and scholarly.

Learn to look at things as a whole.

Enjoy!





"Rely on the meaning of the words,

NOT the words.

Rely on the complete meaning,

NOT the partial meaning."

- The Buddha
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"Beings are the owners of their own Kamma.

And the results of their kamma belong to them alone."

- The Buddha

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"Kamma is within oneself.

It is oneself who is constantly performing causes and experiencing their effects."

- Venerable Ajahn Mun




"Rather light a candle than complain about darkness."




"It's only through suffering can you then end suffering."

- Ajahn Chah




Sunday, November 30, 2008

Questions and Answers (Part 2) : The Core of Buddhism

Questions and Answers (Part 2) : The Core of Buddhism


In line with Questions and Answers, I'm devoting the next few entries to some questions.

As Ajahn Chah said it so eloquently in 'Bodhinyana' (pg 115),

"If I answer your every little question, you will never understand the process of doubt in your own mind.

It is essential that you learn to examine yourself, (for) only through self-examination can you understand." - Ajahn Chah


And I would like to add that, "He who constantly watches over his own mind is freed from the cycle of samsara."


I've asked and answered the following questions.

How about you try answering them, too?

Happy investigating and answering!

Have fun!

Maitre-light




The Core of Buddhism

If you want to know what Buddhism is about, answer the following questions honestly and truthfully.
Only by answering the following questions, will you then have a right understanding of what Buddhism is truly about. .
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1) Why did The Buddha abandon/renounce the luxuries of a royal life and become a monk/ascetic?
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2) What was His Way/Method of practice?
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3) What did The Buddha Gain/Achieve from this practice?
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"Buddhism : NOT a religion; but a spiritual path of knowing, understanding and conquering oneself."
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One who practices to develop the heart, is one who practises Buddhism."
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Sunday, November 23, 2008

Questions and Answers (Part 1) : I ask, I answer

Questions and Answers (Part 1) : I ask, I Answer

A funny phenomenon that I always encounter in class is every time I ask a question, I usually have to end up answering it myself.

The class always keeps quiet.

It's strange.

Perhaps it's due to our culture of subservience and (blind) faith & belief.

Or maybe it's because their minds are 'asleep' and switched off - physically they're present, but in Reality they're in a land far far away.

Or maybe they're just tired, from all the holding (of poses) and sun salutations.

But then again, I told myself : I ask, I answer and I learn.

The Buddha once said, one of the reasons / karmic causes for stupidity in this life is not asking questions and investigating in the previous life.

Do you want to be born stupid in your next life?

If you don't want to be born stupid in your next life, you better start asking questions and investigating this life.

Which brings to my mind the extend the parents would go to to ensure that their children do well in school and in their exams.

And the emphasis on grades to determine the intelligence of a child.

Honestly parents, if you want your children to be smart, intelligent etc,

Forget about all the rites and rituals, ceremonies, offerings and prayers, and chanting etc.

Take The Buddha advice :

Encourage and get your children to ask questions, investigate and find out for themselves.

Then you'll have one very bright and wise kid.

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"Three types of Discernment :

- Discernment that comes from Listening (sutamaya-pañña)

- Discernment that comes from Thinking (cintamaya-pañña)

- Discernment that comes from Developing (bhavanamaya-pañña)

— The Buddha, Digha Nikaya 33.

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"This is the way leading to Discernment:

When visiting a priest or contemplative, to ask:

'What is skillful, venerable sir? What is unskillful?

What is blameworthy? What is blameless?

What should be cultivated? What should NOT be cultivated?

What, having been done by me, will be for my long-term harm & suffering?

Or What, having been done by me, will be for my long-term welfare & happiness?'"

MN 135

- The Buddha, Majjhima Nikaya 135




"The wise are those who ask questions, investigate and answer themselves.

The not so wise are those who ask questions and wait, expecting and depending on others to answer for them.

The worst are those who don't ask, and therefore get no answer - forever they'll be in darkness."




"One who constantly investigates and observes his inner impulses and motives, is one who begins to overcome the 5 hindrances -

Sensual desire, Ill-will, Sloth and Torpor, Restlessness and Worry, and Sceptical Doubt.

Hence their conquest is a consequence of wisdom."

- The Buddha, Anguttara Nikaya 4.61




"Wisdom springs from meditation;

Without meditation wisdom wanes.

Having known these 2 paths of progress and decline,

Let a man so conduct himself that his wisdom may increase."

- The Buddha, Dhammapada verse 282




"Academic intelligence is NOT equal to wisdom."




"Rely on wisdom, NOT accumulation of knowledge."

- The Buddha




"People who study a lot, who are full of theoretical knowledge, usually don't succeed in Dhamma practice.

They get bogged down at the information level."

- Ajahn Chah









Sunday, November 16, 2008

The Future

The Future


About 2600 years ago, The Buddha spoke about a future, and He mentioned several things, which to me, is very interesting.

As such, I would like to share with everyone some of the things He said.

Something for all of us to reflect on, and consider carefully and seriously.



1) In the far future, when rulers are stingy,

When citizens are unrighteous and unwholesome,

When the world is perverted, and when good is waning (decreasing) and evil is waxing (increasing),

In those days of the world decline, rains would fall in the wrong seasons, the crops will wither, and famine will stalk the land.

At that time, immense clouds will gather from the 4 directions as if for rain. The thunder will roar and the lightning will flash, but these clouds will retreat without giving any rain.



2) In the far future, passions will be so strong that even young girls will cohabit with men.

They would want to get married and have families because they're filled with passion and desire. Their minds would crave for sensual pleasures.

They would enjoy body, sound, smell, taste and touch and crave for sexual pleasure and gratification.

They would feel unashamed to indulge in sex like animals. Despite their immaturity, they will get pregnant and have children.

When they're pregnant, they will find ways to get rid of the babies.

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3) There will come a time when young people will have no regard for their parents. They will take over the savings of their elderly parents and give them to their own children.

Parents would have to please and flatter their children all the time.

And if the children are pleased with them, they would provide for the old folks.

If not, the elderly parents would get nothing.

Thus, the old people, destitute and dependent, will be at the mercy of their own children, and survive only depending on their children's whims and fancies.

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4) In the far future, people would tend to let young graduates assume heavy administrative duties of the country.

Young people had knowledge, BUT they lacked experience, capacity, well roundedness and carefulness in management of economic, political and social problems.

They would make mistakes and destroy things.

Their lack of responsibility would cause trade deficit and damage to the country and its development.

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5) In the distant future, unwholesome and irresponsible rulers will appoint unrighteous and greedy judges.

These judges are not concern about upholding justice, and being blind to virtue and honesty, will take bribes.

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6) In the far future, foolish people would let Lord Buddha's Teachings, The Dhamma, be abused and destroyed by many religious cults by way of modifying Dhamma to fit their impure and immoral teachings.

They would then announce that Lord Buddha's teachings were part of their beliefs.

Many people would misunderstand that Lord Buddha's teachings and other beliefs were compatible, and therefore were the same.

In fact those cults do NOT understand the value of Lord Buddha's teachings at all.

People like these would exist when Lord Buddha had gone in Nibbana.

There would be so many cults claiming that they were the right religions.



7) A time will come in the far-off future when women will have greater cravings.

They will desire men, strong liquor, extravagant clothes, jewelleries, entertainment and all sorts of useless possessions.

They will neglect their homes and families and spend a lot of time shopping.

The women will get drunk with their lovers and carry on shamelessly, wasting all the money for drinks, amusements and sensual pleasures.



8) In the distant future, people would be full of greed and desire.

They would not want clean, honest but low-paying jobs which could not satisfy their greed.

They would seek power in the national assembly and only unwholesome rulers will be in power.

They will not care about morality, wholesomeness and justice,

But more interested in increasing their wealth than in the well-being of the citizens.



9) There will come a time when everyone from the rulers to the officials, ministers, priests, home makers, holy men, gods etc are unwholesome.

The weather will be in chaos : Winds may sometimes blow too hard, and sometimes not at all.

In one place the heavy downpour will damage the crops, while in others, the crops will wither from drought.

The whole world will be in chaos.



10) In the far future, people would be split in their beliefs.

One group would believe in Lord Buddha's teachings, the right Dhamma, which when practised to the final stage could really eradicate sufferings.

This group would believe in Nibbana, the extinction of defilements and suffering, as the goal of The Noble Path.

They would believe that Hell and Heaven exist -

That good merits and evil acts cause good and bad results accordingly (i.e. Kamma),

And that woeful states would follow the person who does evil.

Another group would be uncertain about whether the Noble Path still exist in the time when Buddhism was very old.

They would not be sure if Lord Buddha's teachings were still perfect, and whether there were still good Buddhist monks who could reach the stage of Nibbana.

They would be full of doubts.

Yet another group would refuse to believe in The Noble Path, its result and Nibbana all together.

Among this group there would be no such things like hell or heaven, nor would there be any consequence of merits and sins, or any life after death.

They'll be completely DELUDED.

Toward the end of Buddhism, people would have more and more wrong views.



11) In the far future, when The Buddha Teachings (Dhamma) is waning,

There will be a group of people, including greedy immoral bhikkhus (monks) who would trade The Dhamma (The Buddha's Teachings) for money and fame.

They would write books about them and sell them for a living.

They would also DISTORT The Truth to gratify their stomachs, and their preaching will NOT lead to Nibbana.

They will use fine words and sweet voices to induce lay believers to give them costly robes, delicate food and every comfort, turning the 4 essential / necessities of food, clothing, shelter and medicine to luxuries,

And having much more in excess than what they really need.

For the sake of luxuries, they will do many kinds of unseemly and inappropriate things.

They will stoop to preach for money.

They will teach the worthlessness of luxuries and the unwholesomeness of greed by preaching Non-attachment,

BUT in return for preaching, they will ask for money and luxuries.

The money and luxuries only fuel an increase in craving, rather than show the way towards liberation from craving.

Because they desert The Truth,

And because they side with the sectarians, heretics and the occult, and practising it,

Their preaching will NOT lead to Nibbana.



12) In the distant future THE World WILL be in chaos because

Good, knowledgeable, intelligent, wise and capable people, both monks and laymen, would NOT be admired by society.

Pure good-hearted monks who practised according to The Noble Path, would not be respected.

People would not come to hear their teachings. They would be regarded as old fashion.

People would pay no attention and no respect to them.

There would be fewer and fewer good monks in Buddhism.

HOWEVER, the unwholesome teachings of immoral monks will be followed and adored.

Whenever there are enquires about proper behaviour, rules of conduct or discipline,

Only the counsel of wicked, corrupt and immoral monks will be considered.

The advice of modest monks will be ignored.



13) During the end of the religion, this event would occur -

Where only the false and evil will be respected and honoured,

While The Truth and honest ignored and abandoned.

At the end of Buddhism, when the wise speak, the ignorant will laugh at them with scorn.

The teachings of the wise will NOT penetrate deep into the hearts of men.

In addition, monks who are undeveloped in bodily conduct, virtue, mind and discernment,

When giving a talk on higher Dhamma, or a talk composed of questions and answers,

WILL fall into DARK mental states without their being aware of it.

Similarly, bad and sinful people, who did not observe any precept and were immoral, wicked, flattering and unashamed, would be admired in the society.

They would gain power and fame and have many followers and servants.

Laymen like this would be respected highly, welcome and pleased by the public.

In fact they were like a mirror reflecting the situation of the society and the country.

Whether the society was developing or deteriorating could be seen from this big mirror in the national assembly.

It was the indicator, the window or the door of the society.

In a country, the kind of representatives elected by the people would reflect the kind of people themselves.

In the society of monks and nuns in the case of Buddhism, the religion WILL deteriorate.

A monk is made famous by laymen who spread words of admiration about the monk's supernatural and sacred qualities.

It was according to laymen's belief which is a Noble One.

In that time, The Arahants, the ones who were truly free from defilements and sufferings, would not be honoured.

Followers from different sects would have their own definition of an 'arahant' - a term which they don't even know or understand.

They would publicize the practice of their 'monks' very excessively.

The monks made famous in this way would use the monks' outfits for their business.

They made use of the religion for their living and self-benefit, and because of that,

Toward the end of Buddhism, people would lose their respect in the religion.

Their faith would decline, because they saw misconducts among the monks.

ONLY Wise people who were firm in reasoning would seek the right monks.



14) In the far-off future when the world is in decline,

People's desires will be so strong that they are enslaved by their cravings.

Men's passions will be so strong that they will be infatuated with young brides, losing all judgement and self-respect.

In the assembly of monks and nuns,

Famous popular (BUT unenlightened) monks spoke with impressive speech.

They preach like cobras spreading their hoods,

Play great roles in the society and commanded respect and faith from the people who are totally UNaware of how monks should be.

The false monks will receive great wealth, fame and title so much so that they forgot themselves and completely lose their minds.

They would not have control over their eyes, ears, noses, tongues and minds, and allow them to enjoy forms, sounds, smell, tastes and tactile sensations until sensual pleasure filled up their minds.

In addition, there will be monks who will live in close association with nuns, female practitioners and novices.

As they interact with nuns, female practitioners and novices, they can be expected to lead the holy life dissatisfied,

Or to fall into one of the grosser offences, leaving the training, returning to a lower way of life.



15) Towards the end of Buddhism, immoral monks who were good at acquiring possessions, would increase in numbers.

They being undeveloped in bodily conduct, virtue, mind and discernment, will give full ordination to others, and take on others as students,

But will not be able to discipline them in heightened virtue, heightened mind and heightened discernment.

The junior monks who look up to the senior monks for guidance,

Would take the lead from the behaviour of the immoral senior monks, and would NOT observe the monks' rules (Vinaya).

They would NOT know about right and wrong, and / or what their duties are.

They would enter monkshood ONLY because it's a tradition.



16) In the far future, people would be unsatisfied with ruling by the king.

They would protest against this type of ruling and seek democracy, in which the king's role and power were reduced, and all were under the same laws.

When the king refused, they would seize his power by force, according to the needs of the people.

Any king who refused would be overthrown and forced out of the country, together with his family.

In addition, bad monks will rule the day,

And evil monks will harass the good, worthy monks until The Worthy Ones flee from the monasteries to the jungle.

The good and The Noble will live in fear of the powerful and the Evil.

There WILL BE lesser and lesser good honest folks.....

So, is our present age 'The Future' which The Buddha spoke about?

You be the judge.

You decide.



"From corrupt Dhamma comes corrupt discipline;

From corrupt discipline, corrupt Dhamma.

- The Buddha

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Reference :

1) Samyutta Nikaya

2) That the True Dhamma might last a long time - Readings selected by King Asoka, translated by Thanissaro Bhikkhu.

3) Buddha's 16 Prophesies by Phra Acariya Thoon Khippapanno.

4) The Jakata Tales.




Sunday, November 9, 2008

Should We Gamble?

Should We Gamble?


I met up with an ex-student, now friend, who's a remisier, to pass him some books.

During our short meeting, he brought up the subject on gambling, dabbling with shares, etc.

In our conversation, he made a comment that The Buddha did not say we cannot gamble.

I told him he's right.

As I was going for class, our conversation ended and I left the topic as that.

When I reached home that night, I followed on from where we left off and reflected on it.

It's true The Buddha did not say we cannot gamble.

The Buddha was the most liberal teacher of His time.

And in my opinion, of time.

He never tells people what to do, or not to do.

He did not say you must do this, you can't do that.

He knows that the human mind is untamed, undisciplined and filled with the 3 poisons of anger, greed/lust and delusion.

What The Buddha taught was 'What's right (wholesome) and What's wrong (unwholesome) from a practical point of view.

(Read 'Kalama Sutta / What's Right, What's Wrong' - http://maitre-light.blogspot.com/2006/12/kalama-sutta-karma.html ).

He merely tells it as it is, and that is :

Unwholesome deeds (thoughts, speech, actions) will bring about fear, anger, hate etc, and therefore, suffering to one and all.

While wholesome deeds done to serve and benefit others will bring about greater peace and happiness to one and all.



As The Buddha himself said it so aptly,

"The Tathagatas only show the way. You yourself must make the effort."

Even the precepts which he laid down are just guidelines for us to lead a morally upright life.

The word is Refrain/Avoid.

They're not 'do-or-die' commandments.



Think about it : When you harm another being; talk bad/tell lies about others; steal from another; engage in sexual misconduct ( eg. adultery ); or take intoxicants - you only bring fear, anger, guilt, shame, pain and suffering to yourself and others.

How does it feel when you accidentally cut yourself?

Or when someone you love dies? (1st Precept : Refrain from harming, hurting and killing another being).

What about when you lost something? (2nd Precept : Refrain from taking what is not given - stealing).

When you hear or read stories about a spouse/partner being cheated by their other half, are they happy? Or do they and their children feel hurt, pain, betrayed, angry, resentful and jealous? (3rd Precept : Avoid sexual misconduct).

How do you feel when someone lie, cheat, or deceive you? Or spread malicious gossip about you? (4th Precept : Avoid false speech - lying and idle chatter).

And last but not least, have you ever come across someone who's so intoxicated that their behaviour brought fear, embarrassment, and maybe even disgust to others?

Not forgetting how the intoxicants cloud up our minds and mars our judgement that we may end up committing any one of the above.

Did I also mention that it is one of the reasons for being born stupid in the next life? (5th Precept : Avoid intoxicants).



In 'If' - http://maitre-light.blogspot.com/2007/08/if.html , I said that we can possess riches; Just remember never to allow riches to possess us.

To me, the question is not so much as 'should we' or 'shouldn't we'.

Rather, it's 'Can we let go ( When it's time to let go)?'

Can we stop ( When it's time to stop)?

Can we NOT allow it ( anger, greed/lust, delusion) to possess us?



In 'How Foolish Can We Get (Part 2) : The Trap' - http://maitre-light.blogspot.com/2008/02/how-foolish-can-we-get-part-2-trap.html , I said it's only a rare monkey who can let go.

At the end of the day, to me, it all boils down to one thing :

To each his own. You Do, You Be Responsible.



"One day, a man went to see God, lamenting about his losses from gambling and the stock market, and how he and his family are now suffering."

In a thunderous voice, God boomed, "Who asked you to gamble?!"

Afraid, the man cried, "It's the devil!"

"So go find the devil!" said God. "Why do you look for me for?! I didn't ask you to gamble, so I'm not responsible!"

So, the man went to see the devil.

"Oh you evil one! You bad one! It's all your fault. You tempt and asked me to gamble and now I'm broke and my family and I are suffering!"

At that, the devil laughing gleefully from cheek to cheek, replied,

"You're right! I did ask you to gamble ......... But you don't have to if you don't want to!"





"From craving springs grief,

From craving springs fear.

For one who's wholly free from craving,

There's no grief,

Much less fear."

- The Buddha.




"By oneself is evil done,

By oneself is one defiled.

By oneself is evil left undone,

By oneself is one purified.

Purity and impurity depend on oneself.

No one can purify ( or impurify ) another."

- The Buddha







"In the final analysis, what can lead a person astray, or what can guide him on the right path is nothing but his own mind."

- Venerable Ajahn Mun







"Stop a little; a little nice.

Stop a lot; a lot nice.

Stop completely; completely nice."






"Cut down the forest ( of the passions - of lust, hatred and delusion ),

But not real trees.

From the forest ( of the passions ) springs fear.

Cutting down both forest and brushwood ( of the passions ),

Be forestless ( ie. passionless ), O Bhikkhus."

- The Buddha, Dhammapada Verse 283






"Know thus, O good man :

"Not easy of restraint are evil things.

Let not greed and wickedness drag you to protracted misery."

- The Buddha, Dhammapada Verse 248.

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"So, when a fool does wrong deeds,

He does not realise ( their evil nature );

By his own deeds the fool is tormented,

Like one burnt by fire."

- The Buddha.

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"Your misdeeds were not committed by your parents,

Nor by your brothers and sisters,

Nor by your friends nor kinsfolk,

Nor by recluses and priests,

It is YOU who are responsible."

- The Buddha


** Note to readers : Having said the above, though, Please know that in The Parabhava Sutta, The Buddha did say that gambling is one of the causes of a man's downfall.